

Parenthood
Parenthood: family and parents protecting their children, and why this 1989 movie still matters.
The setup
Parenthood arrived in 1989, directed by Ron Howard. The plot centers on the four Buckman siblings: Gil, Helen, Larry, and Susan. Decades later, it is worth looking at why the film still connects with audiences.
THE MOVIE
Gil is still the reason this movie works
Parenthood was released in 1989 and directed by Ron Howard. Rather than simply retelling the plot, the film is worth revisiting for the characters, conflicts and ideas that give its story its identity.
Family, Parental protection and Greed emerge through what the characters face and the choices they make, giving the story more to explore beyond its immediate plot.
Gil, young Gil and Karen do not begin the film seeing one another clearly, and watching those first impressions break down is a big part of why Parenthood still works.
THE SETUP
The idea that sets Parenthood in motion
Gil Buckman, a St. Louis sales executive, is trying to balance his family and his career. That detail matters because it shapes the way the characters initially see one another.
When he finds out that his eldest son, Kevin, has emotional problems and needs psychological counseling and that his two younger children, Taylor and Justin, both have issues as well, he begins to blame himself and questions his abilities as a father. From there, the film can concentrate less on explaining the setup and more on what happens between the people inside it.
THE CHARACTER
Why Gil matters
Steve Martin plays Gil. Gil Buckman, a St.
That family connection gives Gil a clearer emotional stake in what happens.
Humbled by family and work issues, Gil opens up to Frank about his doubts as a parent.
The plot centers on the four Buckman siblings: Gil, Helen, Larry, and Susan.
THE PERFORMANCE
Why young Gil matters
Max Elliott Slade plays young Gil. Gil is finally able to accept the life he has chosen after his elderly grandmother tells him the story of her first experience riding a roller coaster when she was young; she was amazed at all of the different emotions she experienced compared to the merry-go-round, which was simple and bland.
That family connection gives young Gil a clearer emotional stake in what happens.
UNDER THE SURFACE
Parenthood has more on its mind than the plot suggests
Parenthood has more on its mind than the basic setup suggests. family sits close to the centre of the film, but it is explored through the characters rather than treated like a lesson.
parents protecting their children matters just as much. The film keeps challenging the assumptions its characters make about one another, which is where much of its emotional weight comes from.
There is also plenty here about greed and the safety of home. Those ideas overlap rather than sitting in separate boxes, which helps the movie feel like a story about people rather than a checklist of themes.
PURE 80S
Parenthood could not belong to any other decade
Parenthood could hardly be separated from the decade that produced it. Released in 1989, it carries the attitudes, style and filmmaking rhythms of the 1980s without needing to announce them.
It also sits comfortably within the era's comedy drama and comedy filmmaking, even if the movie itself is more interesting than any single genre label suggests.
That is part of why it still appears in conversations about 1980s movies and 1980s comedy drama movies. The film has become tied not only to its own story but to the wider memory of what 1980s movies felt like.
WATCHING IT NOW
What has aged — and what hasn't
Watching Parenthood now means seeing both what has lasted and what unmistakably belongs to 1989.
What still works best is the human material. Ideas around family, parents protecting their children and greed have not stopped being relevant simply because the clothes, language and cultural references belong to another era.
Some moments inevitably land differently for a modern audience. Revisiting an older film properly means enjoying what still works without pretending every choice has aged equally well.
THE LEGACY
Why Parenthood still matters
A large part of that staying power comes from the characters. Gil, young Gil and Karen are still useful shorthand for the personalities and pressures the film explores.
Parenthood has lasted because people continue to recognise something in it. Nostalgia helps, but nostalgia alone does not keep a movie in the conversation for decades.
THE VERDICT
Does Parenthood still hold up?
So, does Parenthood still hold up? Yes — although watching a film from 1989 honestly means accepting that not every moment will land exactly as it once did.
The film still has something recognisable to say about family, parental protection and greed, and its characters stop those ideas from feeling abstract.
Parenthood remains worth revisiting because characters such as Gil, young Gil, Karen, Helen and Frank still feel like people rather than labels once the film gets underneath the stereotypes.
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